Saturday, September 13, 2008

Really Listen

I am far, far from perfect at relationships. I am always goofing up, forgetting to call back, not remembering important dates, saying careless things, acting out of selfishness, etc....

This weekend I got a good taste of what it feels like to be on the receiving end of those undesirable traits. I refer to it as "diarrhea of the mouth". It's so hurtful and impossible to take back.

So today I find myself fragile and humble with a certain determination to make good changes in the lives of those around me. Taking time to *really* listen without my filter running with judgements and solutions. Be tender, people aren't as tough as they appear. Nothing heals quite like human touch; hug often. Love in all situations is most important. It doesn't matter weather I agree or disagree what matters is how I love people in all things.

Even though it sucks to feel low, undesirable, and lonely it really is a good lesson for me to evaluate how I treat others in my life. People are not disposable. Everyone is valuable and worthy.

1 comment:

  1. Ditto for me too. I need this engraved on my brain. I love reading your stuff! I hope you know how you are cherished in my life! I hope I haven't contributed with "DOTM" as well. If so, I do apologize. Love ya girl! {{hug}}

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Thanks for your input :)